No one with any level of sanity would label you as an Interista for saying what you feel. I totally understand your feelings...let me share this one with you:
Last nite, I couldnt stop scoring goals in my regular Monday nite football match...I mean, in two games of 6 goals, I must have scored 7 or 8 easily (I stopped counting when it got too easy)...I was in my full Milan kit, from Predator boots, black and red socks, to a Sheva jersey....I thought this was a good omen for tomorrow´s game...
Then I go home, and go to sleep (after bathing of course)...and dream that Barca defeated us 7-0 in the Nou Camp.....
7-0...and woke up feeling as if I had lost my right leg or something...(then I looked into my 10 month old´s eyes, and he smiled, and all was right with the world...talk about a reality check!)
This is just our nerves and brain playing with us...and since your wife was already wrong about this final, I think she may just have gotten it completely wrong...so why worry?