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[Kaka1899]

they're both okay the nurse said when she phoned up, going to collect them in 35 minutes!

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what happened to the mens paradise thread? or didn't we recreate one on here?

Which is...? Illuminate us please... :p

well believe it or not Zeekay started that thtread also, it was full of pictures of beautiful women which we all posted, but i bet you guessed that by the name and who started it!!

[theaxeofpain]

You're right, I guessed.

I don't believe I have noticed a thread with that name. I'm perfectly fine with it.

[theaxeofpain]

Hey guys where are you? How are you doing? It's been some time since we had a chat here.

[Best-Pundit]

I need some help guys. Heart problems.

So, I've been seeing this girl around in the places I go frequently, then about a month or so ago she send me a friend request on facebook (which I accepted of course ). Last week she talked to me first, we began to chat. When we talked she used to call me, you know, names as we were in a relationship like honey for example, sent me hearts etc, you know, warm and loving words, and I used to reply the same. Meanwhile she told me that she still had feelings for her ex bf. At the same time on her facebook wall there were some links and notes about love and stuff like that i.e: - And then my soul saw you and it kind of went
"OH there you are.I've been looking for you" ♥!

Last night we went on a "date", a rock band had a gig. We were meant to be alone, but then she meets a lot of friends there, stayed with them, so did I because I knew most of them, had some fun. Stayed together for some bits throughout, then she went home. I stayed with a friend of mine at a bar. Talked a bit with her via a few sms. Like always, warm words and hearts in every message. Now that I'm home I saw her status update, it was: "In love .... ^.^".

I have my doubts of course, but I kinda like her, maybe even falling for her (I know that that's huge), I don't know. The question here is: does she like me, even just a bit?

May seem silly really, not a big deal, but I need some opinions from you Milanistas.

You know what, If you were my close real life buddy over here, I would have punched you very hard for asking such question (no offense ofcourse). Because that would have helped you to wake up. If you have genuine feelings for her, you better tell here rite now, straight away. Just like Johnny Depp tells that French girl in that movie Public Enemies (2009), watch his style. The point is waiting to tell on the rite moment is not a good idea imo, from personal experiences. I mean what else you want to see? You live in a place where you have the luxury of going out with the girl you like without any cultural restrictions etc, you can talk to her freely, share everything, have funny moments & yet you are confused. I am not 100% sure, but mostly fans don't think twice before kind of falling in love with the football team they are going to support for life. So why so confusion for something even more important? Simpler is better, no complications. The question is not if she would like you back or something, but it is if she really worth all your important & priceless emotions & feelings. If you think the answer is a big 'YES' then waiting would be pointless. Tell her in simple words like a genuine AC Milan fan (with hidden devil inside ). I am sure things will be clear & you would know how to proceed in a better way.

Note: Hope you are 18+ btw

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............., just don't give her the three little words yet no matter how right everything feels as it could screw everything up.

Yeah just don't use those 3 words. In the modern word, those 3 words have kind of lost their depth & meaning. Feels so common & not special. You can simply say that you feel the best when you are with her & she makes you feel very special etc. But be honest.

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how did I not think of this earlier....ASK ZEEKAY (cupid) FOR GOD SAKE....

I will take it as a compliment, so thanks Kastriot

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Where is Zeekay when he's needed?

I have been having kind of weird time recently ..... any way as I said, its very simple. Just tell her your honest feelings & thats it. If she really deserves your important feelings, then things will go very well for you.

You have no idea, what would have I done, if was in Albania & some where in Europe

Some Golden Words:
I know what you are thinking... Did he wait five years or only six. To tell you the truth, in all this excitement I kind of lost track myself. But being this is a love matter, the most powerful emotion in the world ... & would blow your heart clean off ... You got to ask yourself one question: "Do I feel lucky?" ............ Well do you pain?...

Note: If you don't understand this, Google 'Dirty Harry"

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Which is...? Illuminate us please... :p

well believe it or not Zeekay started that thtread also, it was full of pictures of beautiful women which we all posted, but i bet you guessed that by the name and who started it!!

Correction. I actually didn't start it. I started the all important & controversial 'Romantic Boys Club' ...... well supported by Rossober_11 & OCMilano. Kris was suppose to be our Role model, but he kind of disappeared from MM in those days after a decade of regular posting. Man so man regular poster have disappeared without saying good bye

Some times it worries me. Dose life becomes that much busy, tough & boring in the 30's that people forget the things that used to make them happy? I mean watching AC Milan makes me happy & I think I will keep on discussing AC Milan stuff for the rest of my life. What do you people think?

[theaxeofpain]

Thanks Zeekay. You're right about the punch, I would have needed it at the moment. Fortunately I have a friend who yelled at me (was ready to punch me ). Well, I told her, she told me that she still has her ex in mind and can't get into a relationship right now. After we talked about this, she began to talk with me in a more reserved way, colder than before. I'm confused really. She asks me to go out with her, but doesn't talk much, ends the conversations, gets bored, avoids conversations about relationships, I don't know.

(Note: I'm 21 btw )

Keep on discussing Milan forever mate. At least here in the forums.

[Best-Pundit]

Thanks Zeekay. You're right about the punch, I would have needed it at the moment. Fortunately I have a friend who yelled at me (was ready to punch me ). Well, I told her, she told me that she still has her ex in mind and can't get into a relationship right now. After we talked about this, she began to talk with me in a more reserved way, colder than before. I'm confused really. She asks me to go out with her, but doesn't talk much, ends the conversations, gets bored, avoids conversations about relationships, I don't know.

(Note: I'm 21 btw )

Keep on discussing Milan forever mate. At least here in the forums.

I am no love expert by any means, but you did good by telling her. Now she knows that you have feelings for her. And as for the ex being in her mind, give her some time. I mean you are 21 & I am sure you have no plans of marrying her in coming month or two, rite? So why in a hurry? If her company makes you feel happy, stick to her. Go out have fun, chat with her, watch AC Milan matches together Make her believe that you really mean it. Don't think too much about future, it really adds to the pain and confusions. Live in the moment & try to have fun with her. You don't need to be Mr. Bean to sound and act funny. Just be your self with a little sense of humor. That would add flair to your relation. If your really like her with honest feelings, she will eventually like you back in the same way. If that never happens, then it would mean she was never meant to be yours. Simple you are not her type, which isn't a bad thing you know, its just like Gilardino is a great striker, but not Carlo Ancellotti's type. Does that make Gila a bad player? Hell No.

The other thing is you are 21 and live in a European country I wouldn't be too worry if I were you, seriously

[Kastriot]

Zeekay it was a compliment, and well deserved.

[theaxeofpain]

I am no love expert by any means, but you did good by telling her. Now she knows that you have feelings for her. And as for the ex being in her mind, give her some time. I mean you are 21 & I am sure you have no plans of marrying her in coming month or two, rite? So why in a hurry? If her company makes you feel happy, stick to her. Go out have fun, chat with her, watch AC Milan matches together Make her believe that you really mean it. Don't think too much about future, it really adds to the pain and confusions. Live in the moment & try to have fun with her. You don't need to be Mr. Bean to sound and act funny. Just be your self with a little sense of humor. That would add flair to your relation. If your really like her with honest feelings, she will eventually like you back in the same way. If that never happens, then it would mean she was never meant to be yours. Simple you are not her type, which isn't a bad thing you know, its just like Gilardino is a great striker, but not Carlo Ancellotti's type. Does that make Gila a bad player? Hell No.

The other thing is you are 21 and live in a European country I wouldn't be too worry if I were you, seriously

Haha I'm no way concerned about the future by any means really, not planning to get married at this young age whatsoever etc etc. You know, it's just a little momentary confusion when you like somebody, no big deal. So far I've been only myself. I ain't changing for anybody in this world. I'm not worried about anything.

Thank you very much for your advices Zeekay, I really appreciate it.

I live in a European country, but the problem here is that most of the people are very narrow-minded, unlike most of the EU countries, at least the developed ones.

p.s. Is "Dirty Harry" a movie you'd recommend?

[Jay Crisp]

We will never understand women , one thing I have noticed is TV and Movies have them srewed up.You're not like that was a thing my ex would say when something happened in a movie she thought was really romantic.Its a movie not real.It cant happen with the frequency it does in the movies.If I was rich then yes.Or maybe I'd by Messi for all of us.
But women are different in my experience , once they hit a certain age aswell(dont ask me that age) they want security house , money , to be looked after.Not all but most want to be the woman of leisure and not worry about money bills cutting the grass etc...That has nothing to do with what ye were talking about..lol

Anyway AxeOfPain , you'll know when you find someone special , ye'll be at ease straight away almost no awkwardness no silences even at the start it's great ...still do not use the 3 words of doom....kicker is she still may not be the one , as I found out wouldn't change a thing though.

[Best-Pundit]

I live in a European country, but the problem here is that most of the people are very narrow-minded, unlike most of the EU countries, at least the developed ones.

You have no idea how it feels to live among narrow minded people, somebody ask me .........
p.s. Is "Dirty Harry" a movie you'd recommend?
If you haven't seen Dirty Harry, you are missing one of the greatest movie characters of all time ............ It appeared in 5 movies from 1971 - 1988, but you better watch the first one. Dirty Harry (1971)

Here is a small size excellent quality Blu-Ray Rip for fast (& free) downloading:
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