Injuries - Who, when, how long ?

[sylrus]

lol, what a report you make, for being in xu list.

[Sleeping Giant]

@ Ghost of Suso

What the serious fuck?

I have always thought that I am fairly easy going. Maybe I am older than most of you, so I don't mind young people occasionally having some fun. After all, we are all Milan fans and I feel that we are a big family (brotherhood), so I am not offended when occasionally someone says something that crosses the line. It is all good.

But I don't feel comfortable any more with all this. Some of this crap is distasteful and even disturbing.

In fact, I am going to remove you from my buddy list as soon as I finished this post. I probably should've never accepted your invitation to begin with. After all, you probably aren't even a Milan fan anymore, and that disqualifies you from this brotherhood, so why would I even bother being friendly to someone disrespects my team?

For my fellow Milan guys, it is still okay with you. Say whatever you want (about me, or Reza ) and have all the fun you like.

Forza Milan and Forza MM.

EDIT: Ghost of Suso, in fact, you can continue saying whatever you want too, because I won't be able to read that anyway. You were the only person on my buddy list; now you are the only person on my ignore list. LOL.

#metoo

I apologize to Xu, I think me too joined the bandwagon with GoS to troll/tease you. Sorry Uncle

[Ghost of Suso]

I only bow towards God

[xudong]

#metoo

I apologize to Xu, I think me too joined the bandwagon with GoS to troll/tease you. Sorry Uncle

  (reported you to reza, your uncle's uncle  )


No apology is needed. You are absolutely fine.

But if one day you leave us and come back as "ghost of Gazidis" and hurl insult at Milan, then it would be a different sorry. 

To be fair, I didn't even dislike Ghost of Suso as he regularly contributes to this forum (which is appreciated) and brings good laughs (also appreciated), but we all are busy every day and I just have to ration my limited time and emotion.

[Sleeping Giant]

  (reported you to reza, your uncle's uncle  )


No apology is needed. You are absolutely fine.

But if one day you leave us and come back as "ghost of Gazidis" and hurl insult at Milan, then it would be a different sorry. 

To be fair, I didn't even dislike Ghost of Suso as he regularly contributes to this forum (which is appreciated) and brings good laughs (also appreciated), but we all are busy every day and I just have to ration my limited time and emotion.

It's pretty irrelevant to talk this here but I have a pretty gruesome story of bullying to tell which I want to share, which I think could be dimly similar to this

5 years ago, there was a guy(boy honest) in my class (will not share his name), he sadly had stammering problems due to which he used to get badly bullied from the whole class, that guy I remember was very shy, skinny guy and highly introvert,  he hardly able to make any friend but was quite studious, nevertheless, he used to sit in a corner of the class alone. Well let's back to the incident, we had a WhatsApp group which had over 500 members ranging from class 6th to class 12th boys, it was a stupid idea to make that group, which he was also a member, one day some dude posted morphed images of him urinating in open with his pants down, that thing got viral in the whole school far too quickly, he immediately withdraws from that group but 2 days we had  Chemistry experiment in Chem laboratory, the whole class got left but he wasn't, after 30 minutes the teacher asked me to go and find him, hmm... I first went to the playground to check him he wasn't there but then checked Chem lab he was found dead, he pierced a sharp knife in his left wrist, that guy was lying motionless on the floor, he was staring me like he was seeing right through my soul with watery eyes(might be tears), I immediately screamed, until seniors and teachers arrived, ambulance was called and he was declared dead in hospital. That guy which shared that morphed images was got arrested the next day anyway he was bailed 2 weeks because he was a juvenile(my country has juvenile laws). His suicide note was found in his home, which he stated he is going to end his life from this cruel and evil world and we all blamed ourselves for his loss. It's hard to narrate the mental trauma which I faced, his dead body still strikes my consciousness up to this day.

I shouldn't compare this to GoS bullying Xu but I feel the pain of bullying and I know that Xu is 100 times more mentally strong than that guy. I think shouldn't share this here. 

I apologize again.

[Ghost of Suso]

It's pretty irrelevant to talk this here but I have a pretty gruesome story of bullying to tell which I want to share, which I think could be dimly similar to this

5 years ago, there was a guy(boy honest) in my class (will not share his name), he sadly had stammering problems due to which he used to get badly bullied from the whole class, that guy I remember was very shy, skinny guy and highly introvert,  he hardly able to make any friend but was quite studious, nevertheless, he used to sit in a corner of the class alone. Well let's back to the incident, we had a WhatsApp group which had over 500 members ranging from class 6th to class 12th boys, it was a stupid idea to make that group, which he was also a member, one day some dude posted morphed images of him urinating in open with his pants down, that thing got viral in the whole school far too quickly, he immediately withdraws from that group but 2 days we had  Chemistry experiment in Chem laboratory, the whole class got left but he wasn't, after 30 minutes the teacher asked me to go and find him, hmm... I first went to the playground to check him he wasn't there but then checked Chem lab he was found dead, he pierced a sharp knife in his left wrist, that guy was lying motionless on the floor, he was staring me like he was seeing right through my soul with watery eyes(might be tears), I immediately screamed, until seniors and teachers arrived, ambulance was called and he was declared dead in hospital. That guy which shared that morphed images was got arrested the next day anyway he was bailed 2 weeks because he was a juvenile(my country has juvenile laws). His suicide note was found in his home, which he stated he is going to end his life from this cruel and evil world and we all blamed ourselves for his loss. It's hard to narrate the mental trauma which I faced, his dead body still strikes my consciousness up to this day.

I shouldn't compare this to GoS bullying Xu but I feel the pain of bullying and I know that Xu is 100 times more mentally strong than that guy. I think shouldn't share this here. 

I apologize again.

Fake story

[xudong]

It's pretty irrelevant to talk this here but I have a pretty gruesome story of bullying to tell which I want to share, which I think could be dimly similar to this

5 years ago, there was a guy(boy honest) in my class (will not share his name), he sadly had stammering problems due to which he used to get badly bullied from the whole class, that guy I remember was very shy, skinny guy and highly introvert,  he hardly able to make any friend but was quite studious, nevertheless, he used to sit in a corner of the class alone. Well let's back to the incident, we had a WhatsApp group which had over 500 members ranging from class 6th to class 12th boys, it was a stupid idea to make that group, which he was also a member, one day some dude posted morphed images of him urinating in open with his pants down, that thing got viral in the whole school far too quickly, he immediately withdraws from that group but 2 days we had  Chemistry experiment in Chem laboratory, the whole class got left but he wasn't, after 30 minutes the teacher asked me to go and find him, hmm... I first went to the playground to check him he wasn't there but then checked Chem lab he was found dead, he pierced a sharp knife in his left wrist, that guy was lying motionless on the floor, he was staring me like he was seeing right through my soul with watery eyes(might be tears), I immediately screamed, until seniors and teachers arrived, ambulance was called and he was declared dead in hospital. That guy which shared that morphed images was got arrested the next day anyway he was bailed 2 weeks because he was a juvenile(my country has juvenile laws). His suicide note was found in his home, which he stated he is going to end his life from this cruel and evil world and we all blamed ourselves for his loss. It's hard to narrate the mental trauma which I faced, his dead body still strikes my consciousness up to this day.

I shouldn't compare this to GoS bullying Xu but I feel the pain of bullying and I know that Xu is 100 times more mentally strong than that guy. I think shouldn't share this here. 

I apologize again.

I have been crazily busy these few days, and just saw this. I am so sorry to hear about that story. It sounds like such a traumatizing experience. 

I have been blessed that people have treated me well. They all seem to like me when I was young probably because I did well in school (In China, that was usually the case. I believe that it is the opposite in the US. Darn.). Now I am older, most people also seem to respect (or, get along well with) me maybe because I have a decent job although not making much money. In real life, I try to be nice to other people and try to help them when they need (and when I can), and that probably helps too. 

I honestly don't know what I would do in cases like that. I just can't imagine that, and I don't want to imagine that. Again, sorry that you had to go through that, especially at a young age. 

Back to our story here, I didn't feel that I was bullied (maybe I wasn't sure of the definition). I usually play along and don't take it seriously, then it became a bit distasteful and made me feel uncomfortable. Some shit was exciting for young persons but I am too old for that. I still couldn't care less, because I had so many more important things to worry about, but then I realized why the hell should I entertain someone that I don't even need to respect. 

If you insist, I will accept your apology (though I still don't think it is needed, and you are being very courteous). But we are a big Milan family, so I don't want you to feel uncomfortable or awkward in any way. I don't know if I can speak for Reza, or nefremo or Carlos Silva (don't ask me who he is, but he is one of us. ), or my buddy OCMilano, but have a feeling that we all appreciate having each other on this cyber space.

[Sleeping Giant]

I have been crazily busy these few days, and just saw this. I am so sorry to hear about that story. It sounds like such a traumatizing experience. 

I have been blessed that people have treated me well. They all seem to like me when I was young probably because I did well in school (In China, that was usually the case. I believe that it is the opposite in the US. Darn.). Now I am older, most people also seem to respect (or, get along well with) me maybe because I have a decent job although not making much money. In real life, I try to be nice to other people and try to help them when they need (and when I can), and that probably helps too. 

I honestly don't know what I would do in cases like that. I just can't imagine that, and I don't want to imagine that. Again, sorry that you had to go through that, especially at a young age. 

Back to our story here, I didn't feel that I was bullied (maybe I wasn't sure of the definition). I usually play along and don't take it seriously, then it became a bit distasteful and made me feel uncomfortable. Some shit was exciting for young persons but I am too old for that. I still couldn't care less, because I had so many more important things to worry about, but then I realized why the hell should I entertain someone that I don't even need to respect. 

If you insist, I will accept your apology (though I still don't think it is needed, and you are being very courteous). But we are a big Milan family, so I don't want you to feel uncomfortable or awkward in any way. I don't know if I can speak for Reza, or nefremo or Carlos Silva (don't ask me who he is, but he is one of us. ), or my buddy OCMilano, but have a feeling that we all appreciate having each other on this cyber space.

I was worried about your age, old people are more prone to depressions. Anyway now I am used to see dead people lying as a Med student

btw is Carlos Silva = porcho

[xudong]

I am not THAT old. I am in my early 40s.

Yes, that's porcho.

[porcho]

I have been crazily busy these few days, and just saw this. I am so sorry to hear about that story. It sounds like such a traumatizing experience. 

I have been blessed that people have treated me well. They all seem to like me when I was young probably because I did well in school (In China, that was usually the case. I believe that it is the opposite in the US. Darn.). Now I am older, most people also seem to respect (or, get along well with) me maybe because I have a decent job although not making much money. In real life, I try to be nice to other people and try to help them when they need (and when I can), and that probably helps too. 

I honestly don't know what I would do in cases like that. I just can't imagine that, and I don't want to imagine that. Again, sorry that you had to go through that, especially at a young age. 

Back to our story here, I didn't feel that I was bullied (maybe I wasn't sure of the definition). I usually play along and don't take it seriously, then it became a bit distasteful and made me feel uncomfortable. Some shit was exciting for young persons but I am too old for that. I still couldn't care less, because I had so many more important things to worry about, but then I realized why the hell should I entertain someone that I don't even need to respect. 

If you insist, I will accept your apology (though I still don't think it is needed, and you are being very courteous). But we are a big Milan family, so I don't want you to feel uncomfortable or awkward in any way. I don't know if I can speak for Reza, or nefremo or Carlos Silva (don't ask me who he is, but he is one of us. ), or my buddy OCMilano, but have a feeling that we all appreciate having each other on this cyber space.

I am not THAT old. I am in my early 40s.

Yes, that's porcho.

Was about to say. Hey! that's me. lol

What is that sorcery. Where did you get my name from?